Susan Moen is Executive Director of the Jackson County SART, which provides direct services to sexual assault survivors and a K-12 gender violence prevention program. She advocates for students during Title IX cases and helps Jackson County schools create trauma-informed Title IX plans. She is a founding Board member of the You Have Options Program and a member of the SSAIS Advisory Board.
Most parents are not aware of deficiencies in their schools’ response protocols for sexual harassment and assault–until their own child (or a friend’s) experiences the life-altering harm that can result. Parents are forced to become activists when their own family is impacted, or they are driven to action by heartbreaking stories and pleas of “don’t let this happen to another student.” Spurring a community to action too often means having to share details of an incident of harassment or violence after it has occurred.
While personal stories are powerful tools for bringing change, wouldn’t it be wonderful for our parent communities to be able to bring the needed change to their schools before that next story unfolds? We would like to encourage parents to proactively learn what their schools are doing with regard to Title IX protections; and if improvements need to be made, do so before having to react to a problem that comes to light. Here are some places to start:
- Every school should have a sexual harassment and a teen dating violence policy that defines what this behavior is and how to report–finding this is the place to start. These policies are usually the responsibility of the School Board and based on state policies. They should be easy to find on a school’s website.
- A school’s Title IX plan should also be easily accessible on its website. This plan should provide clear descriptions of student rights and the school’s responsibilities to ensure that all students have access to an education free from fear of, or actual, violence and harassment. Title IX addresses both individual incidents and “hostile environments” that impact a student’s ability to learn. The plan should clearly explain how and when Title IX reports are made, how they are investigated, how violations are addressed, and what rights and resources are available to the parties involved in a Title IX investigation.
- After identifying the school’s policies and Title IX plan (or lack thereof), parents can educate themselves on what is required by Title IX, to see if the existing plan adequately addresses everything required by the law and recommended by Title IX experts. Sites such as Know Your IX, SSAIS.org , and the National Women’s Law Center offer helpful information, and you can access the Title IX guidance documents directly on the U.S Department of Education website where documents explain in detail a school’s responsibility to respond to sexual harassment and assault.
- Find a local expert on Title IX who can help with your research. For example, if you have a college nearby, their Title IX office may have staff willing to help you; a local rape crisis center may also have advocates or administrators who are versed in Title IX matters and will assist your efforts. Local attorneys who take civil rights cases or a state victims’ rights organization may also be good resources.
- If your school does not have a clear Title IX plan, parents can get involved. Request a meeting with the District Title IX Coordinator or the Title IX Coordinator for a school (they should be identified on the school website; if not, start with the district Superintendent). Let them know you are interested in knowing more about their policies. This meeting will give you an idea of whether the schools have adequately addressed this issue. Bring someone who has a working knowledge of Title IX (see above) to the meeting with the school and make it clear your interest is to learn more and, if needed, help the school work towards a “gold standard” Title IX plan and response.[spacer height=”10px”]
- Some things you can learn from your meeting: when and by whom are the Title IX coordinators trained? Who is responsible for conducting Title IX investigations and how are they trained? Are students and staff all aware of their Title IX rights? How does the school ensure this? Does the school have a partnership with confidential advocates to help victim/survivors and their families navigate the process of a report?
- If your school does not have the answers to these questions, you can contact your state Department of Education to find out how training can be provided to the schools, and if it can provide best practice recommendations. Local colleges can also be a source for Title IX training.
- Depending on the school’s response to your meeting, your next steps will hopefully be taken in collaboration with the school. If you have approached them in the spirit of “we’d like to help” rather than “we think you are doing a terrible job,” they may be relieved to have the help learning how to create a really great response system (“We want to help you become the gold standard that other districts can adopt” is a great way to approach them). Either way, a great next step is to involve other parents. Find the best way to connect with other parents (social media?) and set a meeting of interested parents with whom you can discuss what you have learned and how to move forward. Provide your group with the resources to educate themselves on Title IX, and then create a “to do” list of goals for improvement, based on what you see is lacking.
- Let the School Board know what you are doing: explain the need you have identified, your willingness to lead the work, and ask for their support.
- List of improvements in hand, continue to meet with the school district and ask that the changes be made. A task force/work group of school administrators, parents and students can be convened to create the best possible policies and Title IX plan.
- Find a couple of models for the plan you would like to see (no need to start from scratch). Here is one plan that was created through this “task force” process that demonstrates the scope of a good Title IX plan – use it is an example, but do not let it limit you: what you create could be better, and will be reflective of your own community’s needs.
- Creating the Title IX plan is not the end of the work. How will you ensure that the school is faithful to it, in every case? Creating a system of accountability is important. Work with the school to discuss how this can be done – not because you don’t trust them, but because you want to make sure that everyone benefits from their gold-standard protocols.
- Find a way to keep your parent group engaged and active once the Title IX plan is in place. A Facebook group where resources, articles and observations can be shared can be a successful way to keep the momentum going, along with quarterly (monthly?) social gatherings. There are so many related issues: comprehensive sex ed in the schools (teaching healthy relationships is the true core of sexual abuse prevention), access to confidential advocacy for youth, student activism at school around changing existing rape culture, education to sports teams about creating safe environment, etc. Parents have infinite power to help their children improve the society and culture of their schools, and Title IX compliance may be only the beginning of what you can achieve.